Most often, families that choose cremation have a specific place in mind to place the cremated remains of their loved one. They may choose a grave, niche, mausoleum or scattering garden located in a cemetery. Or, choose to scatter at sea or in a lake.
There are times when families are not sure what they want to do. Often in those times, a loved-ones cremated remains will end up on the shelf of a closet, or left in the trunk of the car. Hardly the way that anyone should be, or wants to be remembered.
When uncertainty or differences occur as to where to place the cremated remains we can offer an alternative compromise. A portion of the cremated remains, usually a half of a cup full, can be permanently placed in a cemetery "ossuary," which is an in-ground scattering receptacle. This would allow the family to have a permanent location to come and visit the memory of their loved one while giving them the time needed to make the best decision for the final resting place. The name of your loved one can be placed on a small bronze plaque and installed near the ossuary, or carved into a natural stone at the site to memorialize their life.
Your funeral professional will discuss these and other options with you to help determine what may be best for your needs.